Wednesday, June 8, 2011

May Destin, FL Trip with friends

I'm backdating this... I wrote down a couple things so I wouldn't' forget. I don't want to bore you with details, over all the beach was wonderful as expected. We have really come to LOVE Destin, FL. The Gulf of Mexico side really is my preference when it comes to the FL beaches. The water is warm, clear, clean (although a lot more stuff in it this year than in years past) and the beach is just really nice.
  • traveling with a potty trained child has proven a new challenge. Because when they say they need to go, they need to go NOW! A 6 hour drive isn't always condusive to that esp when you're caravaning. We had some funny experiences with that, and that is all I will say. 
  • We had a lot of fun playing at the beach. We even burried Geoffy and made sandcastles. We had A LOT of cool beach toys this time. 
  • Got sunburnt... even with SPF50 applied several times.
  • On the way there... let's just say that Mapquest (I think) was not my favorite GPS system. SMALL ROADS IN RURAL ALABAMA ARE NOT ALWAYS FUN. (no offense) In addition the Love Bugs were O.O.C. (out of control) and literally sounded like rain on the windshield as we were driving these small, rural Alabama roads!
  • This year there we some extra visitors to the beach; a school of stingrays and a SMALL shark, oh and some blue little jelly fish. I missed the shark but got to see the stingrays. *No one was hurt. 
  • Ben watched Land Before Time with us and he loved it and it brought back memories for all of us. That was one of my fav's as a kid!
  • Ashley celebrated her birthday while we were there! It's her last year in her 20's! hehe
  • Ben and Savannah bonded. He told us she was his girlfriend, and she had her first trip to the beach!
  • We swam in the pool some. We did an evening swim one night (while Ben and Ryan slept) and Jacob showed us his best "beached whale" impression. He also showed us how he could swim from one end of the pool to the other I think like 3 times (whoa) and then said "that's the way the whales do it!" Hey Ashley "I gotta get the ear out of my water"! hahahaha
  • Me, Ashley and Jen went shopping at the awesome outlet malls. That was fun.
  • Ryan made DELICIOUS Teriyaki Pineapple Turkey burgers. They were amazing. That is all.
  • The last night we were there, we found a restaurant with in walking distance called Kenny Dee's and ate dinner there. It was fun! Pretty sunset, good food

Kenny Dee's
Happy Birthday Ash!
Clint's always gotta make a face at me. But truth be known, he loves me.

Mmmm, turkey burglers. Yes. Burglers.
tee-hee! so cute!
 
Pooling it up.
playing in the sand!
Look at that water! Not even color-corrected.
Sunburn Evidence! I sat under the umbrella a lot.
 
Saying goodbye to the ocean before heading home!
Yes folks, my child enjoys Dill Pickle potato chips! Yes!
On our drive home. I just love these old buildings in the small old towns in the South.

The drive home was non-eventful, except for that time I ran over a plastic gas can... unavoidable. Luckily it did no damage. It was a very fun trip! I love the beach. Ben loved it a lot more this time. 
(P.S.- sometimes Blogger sucks.)

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Isn't it sad, how things/people seem suddenly MORE important or significant to you when there is tragedy in your or someone else's life? I just read a story on CNN (and watched the video) of a father doing a press conference notifying the media that his 3 year old son that went missing in the tornadoes in Oklahoma was found this morning, not alive. My heart sank to my stomach, he was Benny's age. I can't even imagine the heartbreak those poor parents are going through. Not only did they lose him, they lost their 15 month old son too. The poor mother is pregnant and in the hospital as well as their oldest daughter.
I go through life, with the motions every day. I'm a grumpy bear a lot. I'm tired from working and traffic and I get annoyed really easy. I get more annoyed and frustrated than I should... and I think it's my own fault. I forget to stop folding laundry or washing dishes and just sit and enjoy and love on and hug my boy. I forget to laugh and loosen up a little. I sometimes don't allow myself to stop and read him a book because it's an "inconvenient time" and because I'm busy. Laundry will get done. So will the dishes. But he's only going to be 3 for a little while, and pretty soon will be a teenager who doesn't want me to pay him ANY attention.
After I lost my sister, I realize just how fragile life is- and how at ANY minute, someone can be taken from you. I don't want to have to "remind" myself of these things- but I guess it's good to have reminders. I love my husband. I love my little boy. I love our family and would be so sad with out any one of them. So here's my reminder. Take a mine to LOVE. LAUGH. BE HAPPY. As mom would say "Put a smile on your face and a melody in your heart!"  And... get over it. :)

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Ben update

I haven't done a Benny post lately. There are just so many things that he's been doing or saying lately that are hilarious and it's hard to keep up with it all!
-Lately, he's had this thing with Alligators. Supposedly they're scaring him. Early this morning (4am) he came in to our room crying. I got up to see what the problem was and ask him what was wrong and he held on to me so tight and said "I scared myself!" hahaha, not sure what he meant I asked him if he was scared of something and he mentioned an Alligator... and then a mouse? I don't know. He might've had a bad dream or something, but he also has a stuffed animal that happens to be an Alligator we got from IKEA and he's been sleeping with it in his bed lately. So took that out of his bed and he crawled in and went RIGHT back to sleep...random! He's also mentioned being scared to go poop in the potty because of the Alligators... again, random!
-He loves to shove food in his mouth lately. Like he has to hurry and eat it. I don't know why he's started doing that, but I guess that's pretty typical.
-Whenever anyone passes gas... or as we say "farts" he says "EWWWWW! Roll da window down!" even if we're in the house!
-He's really been in to playing outdoors which is great probably because it's getting warmer. I welcome it whole heartily. He's been enjoying drawing with chalk and blowing bubbles a lot, and especially when I can blow him REALLY big ones. He's helped me plant some of our plants we've put in the yard. We even bought a little seed kit thing from the store that had pumpkin seeds in it that you start and then eventually plant in the garden. The seedlings grew REALLY fast and he loved watching them grow everyday on the window sill in the front room. Then after about a week or so we went and planted them in the yard and I let him do that part. He has also as of late been enjoying throwing and catching the "bisbee" (frisbee), mostly with Daddy. Ryan taught him how to hold his hands up to catch it, and he does a really good job! He's got a pretty good arm on him too, I've mentioned this before. I hope to get him in to some activity like soccer or something soon.
This was him throwing to Poppy
-Whenever we ask if he need to use the restroom he'll say "I just went pee" or "I just went poop"... even though most of the time he hasn't. It's the "I just..." part that gets me!
-we were all cuddling on our bed just now and he likes to rub our backs when we're tired just like we do his. And so I said "Benny, rub my back please" and so he rubbed it for just a second and said "enough?" and I said "no" and so he did it a little longer "that good?" me: "no, more please" so he continued to do it "enough?"... it went on for some time and it was adorable.
-He’s taken to talking back… something that I want to get in check REAL fast, because that’s not going to fly in my home.
-He loves to dance to music. And he’s starting to remember lines from movies. He was playing with his Buzz Lightyear doll the other morning and he was quoting the part with Buzz's dad saying "FATHER!!!!" in a quiet little voice!
- there's a Christmas CD I made years ago in the car. And he said "ooooh Mommy, I like that CD can I have it?" and I said "no... it's mommy's. It's our Christmas music" and he said "mommy. We go see Santa at the church. You have to get your Church clothes on Mommy. We go to Church and see Santa and sit with him."
-If he likes something he wants or thinks looks nice he'll tell you. He's good at giving compliments. He even opens the door for me at his school! He's said to me "I like your haircut mommy!" or "I like your dress mommy, it's like a princess!"
-after I've gotten mad at him or he knows he's not my favorite person, he'll come to me and say "I love you mommy" and then puckers up and kisses me. He loves to kiss and grabs our cheeks. Daddy mostly appreciates kisses on the cheek or nose, but every once in a while Ben really wants to kiss lips! It's pretty funny to watch them. He's learning the art of manipulation with the whole loving mommy when she's mad thing though! I'm on to you kid..... hehe
-I've mentioned before he's really sensitive, but sensitive to people's moods and emotions. The other night I was kind of sad/upset about something, and we were sitting on my bed and he said "mommy, what's the matter?" and I told him I was sad and he said "it's okay Mommy. Don't be sad. I love you." He always wants to make people's hearts happy and faces happy by fixing whatever is wrong. I hope he stays that way!
-When we ask him what he wants to be when he grows up he says "BIGGER!"
-I think he's starting to shy away from naps. Sad day. He hasn't been sleeping well lately, I wonder if it's a growth spurt or if it's simply that he's having dreams now... possibly scary ones. 

-He's still pretty skinny. He's pretty finicky when it comes to food. He'll only eat veggies as long as they're baby food veggies. He's gotten taller... but he's still fitting in to his shorts he wore last summer. But I don't think that's going to last much longer.
-he's starting to be a little more precocious now. He's never been one to get in to things or to climb... and now all of a sudden he is. He still stays out of places where he knows he shouldn't be- but he's figuring out that if he pushes the stool to the counter in the kitchen that he can reach things we don't want him to have. Or that he can climb up the changing table in his room to turn the light on and off. Things like that.
-he still loves bath time and could sit and play in there for an hour if we let him. I can't wait to get him to the pool this summer.
-He's been doing some silly faces in pictures lately. Little Kung Fu moves and stuff.


I guess that's it for now. I'm sure y'all get bored of hearing all these silly details. Or if any of you that are around him enough think of anything else I need to add, message it!

Friday, May 6, 2011

Easter 2011

We had a good Easter. It was a gorgeous day. Ben asked if we could color eggs this year so I got one of those fun little kits and we went out to the garage and driveway to die our eggs. Ryan had actually never (to his knowledge) died Easter Eggs before so it was fun for everyone! Afterward Ryan traced Benny on the driveway a few times! We enjoyed sitting outside on the front porch for a while too. 
 
We spent the rest of the afternoon with Ryan's family. Everyone came so it was a busy house but lots of fun. It's always good to see extended family.
 
Ben and his cousin Nicholas
Little Stud

Ryan & I hid the eggs; the ones we dyed and the ones Nana had put together (which are far more fun because they have money in them!) out in the backyard. The kids went on their hunt and Ben had a ball. He really had fun with it this year. Nana & Poppy got them all Easter baskets too. I decided I'll do that for him next year. :) BUT I really want him to understand the importance of Easter and why we really celebrate it, and that it's about the Resurrection of our Lord and Savior... and not just a bunny and some candy. That part is fun yes, but not the important part. We were SUPER exhausted after having had a very busy week so we didn't stay too long, but did enjoy our time!
Nana & Poppy and all their grandchildren

Thursday, April 28, 2011

Tornado Outbreak

I have lots to catch up on, but we have had some scary weather here in the South during the month of April. Since I've lived here in GA (almost 7 years, can you believe it?) I have not had to experience so many tornadoes. It's not good for my nerves, I tell you that much. For those who don't know already the storms yesterday and last night were REALLY, REALLY bad. The system that came through GA last night had previously made an ugly mess in other states, particularly bad in Alabama in the Tuscaloosa area. The cells of storms moved through Georgia between 9pm-2am, which seems to be the trend. And normally bad cells break up over time… but the particular cell that caused so much havoc in Tuscaloosa keep its power and also created havoc in Northwestern GA. Miraculously, we totally got missed. There were lines of storms above and below us. The City of Atlanta and up through Roswell (where we live) and the Alpharetta area were in a pocket that never stormed up very bad, with no particular explanation. We did get some rain and lots of wind. But NOTHING compared to what the other poor people got hit with. This, however, did not prevent me from staying awake until 1:45am watching the news and weather coverage for fear that the storms would take a turn for the worst and come our way. I wanted to be prepared and not be lifted up like Dorothy and taken to the Land of Oz. Although, I guess I’d be fine with that as long as my boys came too, and there were no flying monkeys. I supposed I’d feel right at home with the “little people”…
Here are some bits of info just for the record:
  1. President Barack Obama toured rubble-strewn Tuscaloosa neighborhoods on Friday, declaring the devastation brought by a series of powerful storms and tornadoes was beyond anything he had ever seen. 
  2. About 148 twisters Wednesday left a swath of destruction across 13 states, killing more than 335 people in six states, including 250 people in Alabama alone.
  3. TWC Severe Weather Expert Dr. Greg Forbes says tornadoes were reported nearly continuously from just after midday April 25 through about 5:30pm EDT on April 28. That's a roughly 76-hour outbreak!  According to Forbes there have been 194 confirmed tornadoes, and still 126 reports of tornadoes yet to be confirmed! (taken from www.weather.com)
  4. The National Weather Service's Storm Prediction Center has said some of the tornadoes on Wednesday may have been more than a mile (1.6 km) wide with wind speeds over 200 mph. 
Check out this link and article, surprisingly from BBC. The first view you see to me was the most impressive video. You can hear the guy panting in the background he's so freaked out. Crazy huge tornado. It was a pretty stressful night, but I feel so glad we weren't hurt. Not sure what we would've done in our tiny bathroom if something that big would've come over us. Not sure we'd still be here!
I don't like tornadoes.
This was from an email my cousin Mark Collier sent us. He lives in Guntersville, Alabama.
"Yeah, we're doing great.  We had a tornado miss our house at around 6:30 AM, by about 100 feet or so, but it got our neighbors'.  One of them had part of their roof torn off, one had a shed obliterated and several of them lost many 200 year old oak trees.  We had another smaller tornado follow the exact same path at around 9:00 PM that finished off the roof started by the morning one.  In all, our town had 12 tornadoes last Wednesday.  Several sections of our zip code were flattened, and almost everywhere else, there was significant damage to trees and stuff.

We spent six and a half days without electricity, and two days with no running water.  I dammed up the creek to catch water to use for flushing the toilets, and we had a 50 gallon drum of drinking water stored in the garage.  All in all, with our church-inspired emergency preparations, we managed with no real issues.  We had enough to share with neighbors.  No one on our road was physically injured (miracle).  Several people in the next town were killed.

Celeste and the kids were caught in another tornado while in the car later in the day.  They were driving along, and golf ball size hail started hammering the car, so they pulled over into a gas station.  Sheet metal and lumber started falling from the sky.  I stood on my neighbor's back porch and watched that tornado go rumbling by, knowing my family was in it.  I've never said a prayer like that one before.

I spent six days cutting trees to help people get out of their homes, roads, and driveways.  Being prepared at home allowed us to help others who were either unprepared or unable to do the work themselves; testimony to the wisdom of the Lord and his prophets!

All in all, it's been an interesting experience that has strengthened us.  Just thankful none of us was hurt.  By the way, they really do sound like freight trains...."

Monday, April 25, 2011

Andrea!

My BFF from Utah Andrea came to visit us and I'm just getting around to writing about it so I hope I can remember all that we did. We had a lovely time, I remembered all over again how much I miss having that chick around in my life! We hid from tornado warnings- twice, we went to the Temple Open House (I'll do a separate post), we went shopping, ate, went to the Dogwood Festival down at Piedmont Park, napped, laughed, watched Season 1 of Modern Family... had a ball basically! It was just what the doctor ordered and I'm so glad we got to have her visit. Ben loved having her here too because she read to him a lot and brought him books to read, and played with him lots.
Photo time! (If I can get stupid blogger to work right!)
Hiding in the bathroom from the tornado... we look scared huh?
Temple open house
Dogwood Festival
Cute Andrea looking AMAZING!


Ben loved Miss Andrea!
I loved our visit!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Let the Good Times Roll..

Okay. I can't hide back the excitement anymore. I'm excited! I'm excited for this month, for May and for June.
There are so many things happening just this month that are all so fun and exciting! The Atlanta Temple is reopening after having been renovated for almost 2 years. I have been so blessed to have watched it's progress over the last couple years, as I drive by it two times a day every day on my way to work. I am pretty excited about the activities surrounding the re-dedication, and President Monson will be here to do it. I hope we are able to watch the dedication, I have never seen one before. We are going to take a tour prior to the dedication though, and I'm pretty excited. If you're not a member of our church and would like more information, you too can visit the open house before it is dedicated. Click here. It's been interesting not having a functioning temple that we can regularly attend the last 2 years, it'll be nice to be able to go back more often.
My BFF Andrea from UT is coming to visit this week, which makes me as giddy as a school girl. I miss living close to her, and am SOOOOO stinkin' excited she's coming to see us. The last time she was here was when we were married 4 years ago- so it should be fun! We are taking her with us to the temple open house tour.
THEN... my sister Delinda will be in town for a short visit for an art conference at Emory, so we will get to spend an evening with her as well! And my brother just called and he is probably coming again next week for work! And I may have a couple of photo shoots this month as well!
THEN... We're going to Destin, FL at the end of May and I have a wedding to photograph the week before that. THEN... like two weeks after that (mid-June), we go to Utah! YAY! We get to see all sorts of friends and family (I hope!). We start off seeing our friends the Christensen's in Vegas and then from there on out I'm not sure what the plan is. But I hope we can see as many people as we can!  I'm so super excited to see my mommy and daddy and to squeeze and hug them and kiss their cute cheeks, and go to my sister Shauna's resting place to see the new headstone we all chipped in for in person. AND of course, all my nieces and nephews.... oh and I guess my big brothers too!
THEN... no just kidding... but it will be the 4th of July soon after that and we get a day off for that. We plan on doing other various activities this summer. Hopefully some tubing in Helen? Or even white water rafting? Camping? YES PLEASE! We will be busy! But I think we function well with busy.
Tulips & Daffodils we planted as bulbs

Who knew ferns could be so interesting?



















We have been tending to our yard lately. I took a special project on this year, the flower bed in the
backyard behind our bedroom. It has been covered with leaves for pretty much the whole time we've lived here and I just got sick of looking at it and decided one Saturday to clean it up. I've planted some bulbs that I'm not really sure when they'll come up; some bleeding hearts and some astilbe. I know you care right? But my point is, I'm excited to see how it all turns out to be, because it's mostly shaded so it should be pretty lush in a couple years with pretty greenery and the flowers from above said bushes I planted.

Our veggie garden is growing pretty good. I'm trying to feel as much motivation and excitement about it this year as I did last... I'm trying. We planted asparagus this year though, which apparently has to mature a year. We planted carrots and broccoli this year and no tomatoes. Ryan's parents usually have a forest of them (literally) and so I figured we'll just eat theirs! Our front yard looks pretty good too. Lots of new plants coming up from bulbs we planted, and we just put some new mulch down. It's getting warmer and warmer out and all of the spring/summer noises outside are getting louder and louder. We were just sitting out on the front porch saw some bats, listened to frogs and an owl in the distance... pretty soon we'll have lightning bugs! And boy, we're getting our typical stormy weather too. Last week there were severe storms (which translates to potential tornadoes here in the South) and tonight we're expecting another. Too bad they're in the middle of the night which prevents me from sleeping, because... well, I'm a worry wart. I love the Spring here in Georgia all except for the HORRIBLE pollen and allergies I get from it and the tornadoes, oh and traffic.
Pollen Eyebrows on my planter
Not my fav.
Well, I'm not feeling well tonight so I better get some rest before the storms come a brewin'.

Sunday, April 3, 2011

The Raintree Circle House

I didn't sleep a wink last night. Okay, that's far-fetched... I slept some, but was awake at least once every hour on the clock for the exception of a couple. So in that time, I couldn't turn my brain off and for some reason got to thinking of our house in Flagstaff, AZ and just how much I loved it and how dear it is to my heart still. And how I should probably write a little about it for my future prosperity.
I in essence grew up in that house, more than any of my siblings did really. I lived there from 8 years old to 18 years old, and before that in Southern California. We built the house over in the Fox Glenn/Continental area (for those of you still in Flagstaff or that used to live there like me). It was my mom's "dream house". When she was a little girl in South Africa, she read a book by Enid Blyton and in it there was a picture of an English Tudor home that she'd always loved. Our home was an English Tudor.
Our Flagstaff, AZ home on Raintree Circle
 We had wallpaper in EVERY ROOM IN THAT HOUSE! We also had "Dusty Rose" carpet in every room except for the rooms my brothers had, and they were blue. My dad landscaped the yard beautifully, he spent ALL the time he could on that yard- front and back. There were 2 ponds- one in front and one in back, a stream with a bridge, a hammock in the back next to the pond, a veggie garden on the side yard with a stepping stone path to it, a compost pile, a beautifully manicured Clematis vine (you can see in the picture) that climbed the face of the house during the summer months, and the list goes on. I loved being in our yard. I loved sitting on the front porch there and looking at the beauty my dad had created. We also would go on a search for Aspen trees to plant out in the forest in my dad's 1979 Dodge Ram (with NO power steering)! He found one especially for me, and it eventually grew to be the largest in the yard (in my head anyway). For a long time we were the only ones in the cul-de-sac too, and my neighbors Jill & Beth and Michelle & I used to play house out in the pine trees and make rooms out of pine needles. 
The house had 5 bedrooms, 4 upstairs and my parents master was downstairs. There was a loft up above the garage as well In what was first my sister Delinda's room, there was a "cubby hole" in the closet that when you went in to it was the opening between the slants in the roof and the walls in the bedrooms on that side of the house. Delinda made it her little safe place I guess, she took pictures of surfers out of magazine and stapled them to the walls (if you could call them that) and had lots of hidden things in there. The surfers were because she missed life back in Cali I guess. It was mostly used for storage, but that was a fun little spot to hide in. I remember it being kind of dark and creepy but fun because it felt so "secret".
There was a window in the bathroom upstairs that if I got on top of the clothes hamper below it, I could crawl out of and sit on the roof of the house. I liked it up there. It was where I went to be alone and to think. Although not very safe, it was definitely quiet and private. I love the sunsets in Flag and that was one of the best places to watch it. It had a good view of the backyard and of the neighborhood below. I always went out barefoot so that my feet could keep traction on the grittiness of the roofing shingles.
We had seminary a few years up in that loft above the garage, dad put up drywall for walls and painted a scene from the Old Testament on it with Brother Dohrmann. We also used that for storage some years, we used it to do haunted houses, we used it to hide and roll up paper and light it on fire and pretend to be smoking (haha), we had a BIG table my dad built out of plywood that had different sections on it- and we found different kinds of rocks and each had their own section. Like turquoise or quartz or fools gold. That was probably the beginning to my interest in Geology and my short lived school career where I majored in it.
Flagstaff has a lot of skunks. And there were a few that managed to find their way IN to the house. There was a direct walkway from the front hall, in through the kitchen, through the laundry room out to the garage. In order to save money on air conditioning, dad would often open all the doors and windows in the evenings to cool the house down. Well... one night two skunks ventured their way on to our driveway. One got REAL gutsy and walked right on through the garage in to the laundry room and that is where he was discovered about to make his way in the to kitchen! I don't remember how, but my dad had to carefully remove him from the premises as to not frighten him making him spray in the house!!! He was successful, but I just remember how scared we all were he would, and how we laughed about it afterwards.
Our dining room also doubled as a library. It was basically floor to ceiling shelves of books. I remember using the set of Encyclopedias on the bottom shelf for book reports. Isn't that crazy? Our kids probably wont even know what those are thanks to the Internet. Speaking of the Internet... I had my first experience ever with the Internet in that house!
Mom taught piano and voice lessons in the living room. That is also where were almost always had our Christmas trees as well. You could kind of peek down from the stairwell above in to that room on Christmas morning to see what kinds of presents we got.
My brother Greg had a bad relationship with the stairs. He would frequently fall UP them! He didn't live at the house very long, he was a senior when we moved to Flagstaff and then went on his mission right after that and then moved to UT after that. But anytime he'd come home to visit or even when he did live there... we'd occasionally hear a few thuds and know it was Greg and the stairs having a fight!
Our family room had a wood burning stove that we used in the winter. I loved watching my dad make fires in it. And I loved listening to it. It was so cozy, especially on those frequently cold, snowy, windy days there in Flagstaff. It was a Country Blue color and very my mom's style. She liked the "country" theme.You can see a smidgen of it below. The dollhouse was one that my dad put together for me, it was almost a replica of our house.
Mom & Dad with the doll house he built me in our family room
I slept in every room in the upstairs by the time everyone else had moved out. I'm the youngest and Delinda is 5 1/2 years older than me so I had the upstairs to myself for a few years. My first room was in the front of the house, I got to pick out my own wallpaper and chose one that was pink with cute little hearts. I had a really cool window seat that doubled as a toy chest. The second room was even cooler, we changed it from a boys room (Greg's) to a much more feminine and older room with bedding that matched the valances and everything. I slept in the other two rooms, ending in what was once Delinda's room. It had wallpaper that looked like clouds. (I wasn't kidding when I told you that EVERY.ROOM had wallpaper!)
I really loved that house. I was heartbroken when my parents called and said that they were moving to Logan, UT and that they were selling. I often wonder what has been done to that house. I'm almost positive that the ugly (sorry mom) carpet and wallpaper were taken out, and that everything looks totally different. The front yard does anyway, no more beautiful landscaping- the new owners let the little Aspen trees take over the yard and you can barely even see the front of the house anymore.I loved that house as if it was a family member, I know that sounds weird... but it was such a huge part of my life and was always so super special to me. I know my parents both still miss it, maybe not Flagstaff itself but the house. I hope that the new owners are loving it and living in it as happy as we were.

Saturday, April 2, 2011

3 years old...
As I've stated before, our little Dude has cracked us up on more than one occasion. He has been saying things like a big boy a lot lately.

For instance, we were all in our bedroom talking and Ben crawled up on the back of the bed and leaned over and said "mommy... I want muffins. I need a muffin in my tummy" and said it very matter of fact like.

He hasn’t been feeling super great this weekend, and now I believe him even more because I’m thinking I’m feeling like he was… but anyway, we were coming home from Nana’s house and he was watching a movie on his little DVD player. He said out of nowhere “mommy, my head hurts. I need some medicine to make it feel better. Okay?”

The door to the bathroom was just closed and Ben needed to pee (holding himself) and I told him to go and he said "It Smellllllsss", he has learned to be cautious of going in after his daddy!

He's been very defiant about going potty in the mornings. Not sure why. He's pretty much defiant to me when I tell him to do anything he doesn't want to. He'll listen to his daddy though, but sometimes he's not there to back me up.

He's learning about how Mommy's body parts are different than his and Daddy's... and that because of that, Mommy's are now "PRIVATE". hahaha We're now teaching him exactly what that means and now how to be respectful of that.

Our home teacher (for church) came over this week to visit. And Ben is known to be pretty shy at first, he has a hard time saying hi to people unless he knows them very well. When Jared was getting out of his car Ben yelled with excitement, "Oh I like him!!" and got really excited. When Jared was leaving Ben was standing on the couch and yelled to him "give me a hug!" It made Jared's night I'm sure and I was proud of him for being so bold!

I'm adding these as we go... whenever he says something funny I want to remember it and put in this post. This morning when I was getting him in to the car he said "Mommy, I want Daddy." Pause "I love him" pause "Mommy, I have a wiener and Daddy does too. You don't have a wiener. Boys have wieners." All I could say while laughing was "you're right!".

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Right now, I'm super itchy. And cold. This is a note to my future self... that apparently, this time of year when the pine trees here in Georgia are doing they're pollinating thing- I get an allergic reaction in some shape or form. This year happens to be an incredibly itchy, fast moving red rash on my legs and arms. Couldnt' just be an itchy face (not just nose) like I got 4 years ago on the way to our honeymoon when you could see those darn pine trees literally shaking their own branches (seriously, it was NOT windy that day and the branches were moving up and down on their own) and putting plumes of pollen clouds in the air. And apparently my big sister Delinda used to have the same problem with these "hive-like" spots when she lived here too. Me no likey.
Dear Antihistamine, please kick in soon. I am incredibly itchy and spotty looking. Thanks for all your assistance, Heather.