3 years old...
As I've stated before, our little Dude has cracked us up on more than one occasion. He has been saying things like a big boy a lot lately.

For instance, we were all in our bedroom talking and Ben crawled up on the back of the bed and leaned over and said "mommy... I want muffins. I need a muffin in my tummy" and said it very matter of fact like.

He hasn’t been feeling super great this weekend, and now I believe him even more because I’m thinking I’m feeling like he was… but anyway, we were coming home from Nana’s house and he was watching a movie on his little DVD player. He said out of nowhere “mommy, my head hurts. I need some medicine to make it feel better. Okay?”

The door to the bathroom was just closed and Ben needed to pee (holding himself) and I told him to go and he said "It Smellllllsss", he has learned to be cautious of going in after his daddy!

He's been very defiant about going potty in the mornings. Not sure why. He's pretty much defiant to me when I tell him to do anything he doesn't want to. He'll listen to his daddy though, but sometimes he's not there to back me up.

He's learning about how Mommy's body parts are different than his and Daddy's... and that because of that, Mommy's are now "PRIVATE". hahaha We're now teaching him exactly what that means and now how to be respectful of that.

Our home teacher (for church) came over this week to visit. And Ben is known to be pretty shy at first, he has a hard time saying hi to people unless he knows them very well. When Jared was getting out of his car Ben yelled with excitement, "Oh I like him!!" and got really excited. When Jared was leaving Ben was standing on the couch and yelled to him "give me a hug!" It made Jared's night I'm sure and I was proud of him for being so bold!

I'm adding these as we go... whenever he says something funny I want to remember it and put in this post. This morning when I was getting him in to the car he said "Mommy, I want Daddy." Pause "I love him" pause "Mommy, I have a wiener and Daddy does too. You don't have a wiener. Boys have wieners." All I could say while laughing was "you're right!".

Right now, I'm super itchy. And cold. This is a note to my future self... that apparently, this time of year when the pine trees here in Georgia are doing they're pollinating thing- I get an allergic reaction in some shape or form. This year happens to be an incredibly itchy, fast moving red rash on my legs and arms. Couldnt' just be an itchy face (not just nose) like I got 4 years ago on the way to our honeymoon when you could see those darn pine trees literally shaking their own branches (seriously, it was NOT windy that day and the branches were moving up and down on their own) and putting plumes of pollen clouds in the air. And apparently my big sister Delinda used to have the same problem with these "hive-like" spots when she lived here too. Me no likey.
Dear Antihistamine, please kick in soon. I am incredibly itchy and spotty looking. Thanks for all your assistance, Heather.

Happy Anniversary to Us!

We were so cute and young looking back then! (and skinny!) 2006

4 years ago today! 2007

With Baby Ben 2008

2009

2010

2011

Yes, I'm pretty happy that Ryan & I found each other. I love my guy, so so so much! He makes me laugh every day, probably mad every day too... but mostly happy. hehe He's an EXCELLENT daddy to our cute little guy, and he takes good care of me. I'm so glad that I am his first & only love/girlfriend/kiss, etc. I'm so glad that he "waited for the right one" and picked me!!! Happy Anniversary lovey!

Happy Birthday to My Mommy

Today, I'm grateful for lots of things. VERY grateful in particular for my mommy. Last week on the year anniversary of my sister's passing we found out that my mom had a pretty bad blockage in her heart. Today she went in for an angiogram to find where the blockage was and how severe it was. Depending on the results they were either going to put stents in or do open heart surgery, pretty much on the spot. Today is my mom's 74th birthday too! We've been praying so hard, we've had friends and family praying... it's been a bit scary. She's been in and out already, luckily no open heart surgery is required and they already put the stents in. So not only am I grateful for people praying for us/her, for answers to prayers, for my mom... but I'm also grateful for the Immunologist she goes to that heard her coughing (a symptom of heart problems) and advised her to have her heart checked. She's had this cough for YEARS. And because of whatever prompted him to listen more carefully and tell her to check that and the fact she even coughed- she has been able to take care of a life threatening problem.
She's recovering like a champ. And thank goodness for technology because I've felt so helpless being so far away, and I was able to see her via Skype on my brother Greg's laptop. I was able to tell her I loved her and happy birthday. She looks great and should be going home tomorrow! Thank you to everyone who knew and prayed. Thank you to my loving Ryan who has been my rock and shoulder to cry on and support. And who has been also so concerned about her. I am one lucky chick!!!
I love my mom very much. I love both of my parents, and the love and support they give each of their children and grandchildren. They are amazing people and I'm so lucky to be their daughter.

Uncle John came to visit!

My brother had to come to Atlanta for work, and we got to spend a whole 2 hours with him last night! It was a super nice visit; he was able to visit our home for the first time and then we went to dinner. Ben was in HEAVEN with him! We haven't heard him giggle or be silly like that in forever. Uncle John brings that out in people! He was irreverent and was teaching him naughty things and we didn't even care... because, that's what crazy Uncle's are for right? After dinner and after dropping him off at his hotel Ben CRASHED on the way home. All that laughing and getting tickled and Uncle John playing air guitar on the Ben-guitar wore him out! I am so glad we got to see him and spend time with him, even if it was just for 2 hours!

I'm an old lady...

My cutey pie

at the mall after dinner

I had a wonderful birthday. I took the day off and spent most of the day with Ashley getting a pedicure and lunch and then dinner with my boys. It was JUST right. A day off, beautiful weather, relaxing pedicure, time spent with my fav people. Sunday (the day before) we had dinner and cake at the Terry's house which was also lovely. I'm an old lady... a whole 32 years I've been on this earth!

isn't my husband so sweet?

Me and Ashley at the nail place (I have super bad hair)

Ah.... hot leg wrap after a sugar rub. Luvs!

Ben's 3rd Birthday

Phew! What a fun few days it's been. Let me just start off by writing a conversation Ben and Ryan just had, because I'm still laughing about it. I told Ben to go get his jammies from his room (not really meaning it because I knew I'd have to get them). Ben was too busy playing with the totally awesome tractor Uncle Clint gave him tonight for his birthday, so Ryan said again "Benny, go get your jammies!" (but in a nice encouraging voice) to which Ben replied "I can't..." and then continued to play. Then he said "my leg is broken" hahahahaha! Where does this kid come up with this stuff? He's so hilarious, and getting funnier and funnier everyday. The other day we were out in the yard and out of the blue he yelled "OH MY GOSH!" and has been telling us "oh! good job [Mommy] or [Daddy]" when we do something either for him or really any time. He also really needs to know where he has gotten everything he has. Like where did his shoes come from, meaning did someone give them to him or did we just get them at the store... "who gaved this to me mommy?" is what he usually says. Yesterday I took the day off and we had A LOT to do, starting with his 3 year check up. Well folks... He grew a whole 2 inches in 6 months! This is BIG! He had only grown 1/2 an inch from his 2 year check up to his 2 1/2 year check up. So I guess he made up for it the last 6 months. However, he's only gained 2lbs in one year... but... he's proportionate. And the doc doesn't seem to think there's a problem. And well, he doesn't have tall genes... that's all there is to it. His parents and grandparents are not what we call "tall" people. :) Anyway, he's healthy and doing everything the way he supposed to. Except for maybe eating veggies, but at least he'll still let me give him baby food veggies. Better than none at all... right?

Okay, so anyway- back to the birthday festivities. I swore I wouldn't do a huge party until he was like 5... but it kind of turned into one unintentionally- but I'm not saying this was a bad thing. We have lots of people we love and who love our dude and we're SO grateful for that. Thursday was his actual birthday so I took a half day and took cupcakes to he and his classmates at the daycare. He was pretty excited about that. I think so excited that he didn't sleep very well the night before. When I got there he was pretty darn excited to see me, not sure if it was the cupcakes he was excited to eat or if it was me. :) Here he is in his cute hat they made him with his buddies at the daycare eating cupcakes.

And here we are with his friend Cooper who jumped in on the picture. I thought it was pretty cute. Ben doesn't look too thrilled, but he also looks like Coop's got a good handle on his throat, so maybe it was just that!After we left we went to the store to pick some things up. My brother and his girls sent a card with some money in it, so I told him he could buy something with it. We also decided he could pick one thing out for mommy to buy also. Ryan was buying him a tricycle on the way home from work, so we wanted to get him something else small. My brother Greg and his family send Ben a birthday card with some $$ in it, so I put half in his piggy bank and let him have the other half to buy something with. We found a fun puzzle for him to buy and a fire truck that lights up and makes lots of noise. (yay...) And then headed home. Ryan came home the tri-cycle or "bike" and then we headed to Chick-fil-a for dinner because that's where he wanted to eat. And wouldn't ya know it, he FELL ASLEEP in the car! We ate then spent some time together and went to bed.

Saturday was the party, we got ready for it during the day, including the executing of the Pirate Cake for Ben since that was our "theme". We asked him what kind of cake he wanted and that was the answer we got! We got the recipe, or idea from Betty Crocker and it was pretty easy! Ryan did most of the work! (He's cute huh?) I also I tried to pick up all things pirate related. And this was the first year that "goodie bags" were required... I guess not required but I thought it would be fun. (We had the bucket left over from Halloween so I served chips in that, Ryan had that random treasure chest I put the "booty bags" in, and I got 5 free invitations from Shutterfly.com! Before the party started we went to grab a couple of things from Home Depot. We realized that they were doing their free kids workshops so we stopped for Ben and he and Ryan made a Home Depot race car! I love those little workshops, and so does Ben! I don't want to bore you with party details, other than Ben had 3 girlfriends come; Aubrey, Ella, and Zoe! He was the only boy, again! Lucky guy. He had fun and I think he thought it was awesome to have friends over to sit at his table with him and to be crazy! In fact, at one point he came to me while the girls were playing and screaming and laughing and he said "mommy... those girls are screaming..." then later when I was holding Savannah he came up to her and said "her cute". I just can't believe my guy is a big boy 3 year old! Look at him! So handsome! Geoff gave him the pirate shirt for his birthday present, it was PERFECT!
We sang, opened presents and ate cake. It was a lot of fun, and we were grateful for the friends that came and presents and for making his birthday special! BEN! YOU ARE LOVED!

Happy Ben-turning-3- Eve! I can't believe my little punkin head is turning into such a big boy! We have a busy few days ahead of us! Tomorrow, I will leave work early and take cupcakes to Ben's school for snack time. We will take him to wherever he wants to eat (most likely Wendy's or Zaxby's) and then get some ice cream.We got a free Ice Cream Cone from Baskin Robbins for their birthday club. Then the cleaning begins and cake making and all that stuff for his birthday party Saturday. Ryan and I are going to make a Pirate cake for him, which he will probably LOVE. Shiver me timbers! I need to go make the cupcakes!

Thundering Waters Visit 1 for 2011

Gosh! There are so many things I need/want to write about that I just have either forgotten or just haven't had time to do! One of those things is our trip to the cabin. I mostly just like to post pictures, because I know that sometimes those kinds of posts get boring. And I'm trying to be less boring. Sometimes I give too much detail, and it's unnecessary.
The highlights of the cabin trip were this though:

• Ben went on an adventure with the guys (Jacob, Geoff and Clint) while us girls did a workout thing on the Wii. Ryan stayed to tend to Savannah, and plus he wasn't feeling good. On this adventure, Ben learned to pee standing up! He had to go, so they told him how to do it (apparently while holding him at a 45 degree angle) and he caught on REALLY quick! He also got clobbered by Bowser (The Terry's dog) which was sort of sad/hilarious. Clint has video of it... Ben playing with sticks and throwing them in the water, then all of a sudden Bowser running through and knocking him over. The phone is dropped as he's screaming! It's kind of horrifying in a funny way. He was fine. A little skittish of Bowser after, and Bowser just thought Ben was playing. It was Ben's fault, he was throwing sticks in to the river and Bowser just thought they were for him! Ha-ha! Don’t worry, they've made up and are friends again!

• Ben peed a lot outside (we let him because we felt it was good practice and we just thought it was so funny). There were several times he was out playing and I came out only to find him peeing in the bushes! Don’t worry, he also started peeing in the appropriate place, the toilet, standing up and is now a bona fide pro! (no picture for this... kinda private! But super cute from a mom's standpoint!)
  
• We played a lot of crossword puzzles and games together!
• Found a mouse in the house (as Ben called it)! He was cute and harmless- but needed to not be there anymore! Jacob and Ryan captured him and set him free. I'm sure he's back living in the house by now! They only let him out at the top of the stairs down to the house.
• Spent a glorious afternoon out on the deck in the sunshine listening to the river flow below!!
• went on our usual walk down to the water.
• Brought Ben's tent for him to sleep in this time around. We slept in the basement and didn't have a place for him to sleep anymore since he's grown out of the pack and play and there was no extra bed down there. He could've slept on the couch, but I was A. afraid he'd fall off and B. I just thought it would be more fun to have the tent! Thanks IKEA for the $10 tent!
• Jennifer taught Ben to count in Mongolian. Maybe one day it'll stick!
• There was a lot of Savannah cuteness going on, her first trip to the cabin!
• The lady bugs are BACK! It's a good thing they're lady bugs and not an ant or other kind of yucky beetle infestation. We found one (not alive) in Ben's tent when we got home. They're EVERYWHERE up there!

There is Sunshine, blessed Sunshine...

It's taken a little while (ha-ha), but I feel like Ryan really knows me now. He knows what I need sometimes better than I do to make me feel better. This Saturday Ben wasn't feeling good, had a cold or something and because of that he was EXTRA sensitive and moody. I was feeling a big impatient with him so Ryan would regularly direct me outside, to calm myself down because he KNOWS that the sunshine on my face and the nice breeze and fresh air in my lungs will almost always make me feel better! It was a beautiful weekend for that. And let’s just say I was outside A LOT, especially on Saturday!
Saturday morning around 5:45am I felt a little body climbing up in to our bed and Ben came and lay right ON TOP of me. He NEVER does this especially that early- so I assumed he got scared, had to pee or wasn’t feeling good. It was the last two, so I told him that mommy was still sleeping and that the sun was also still asleep and that he needed to go back to his bed until the sun came up. I took him to the potty, and got him back in bed. No later than 2 hours later, just as the sun had come up did I feel and hear the little body climbing back up on the bed! He had been coughing much of the night and had a stuffy nose, so I think he just couldn’t sleep anymore. I could’ve though… just sayin’. So he was pretty tired and ornery that day. But we had a lot to do. We had errands to run. And places to go… after lunch we got him to take a nap, not without arguing with us first, but he did thank goodness. And while he napped Ryan washed the cars and I did some yard work. It was SO nice. We planted tulip and daffodil bulbs in the Fall and they made it! We did it right, we think! Only because they’re poking through the earth and are going to make their debut soon! I love gardening, I love planting things and seeing them come alive. It’s so exciting to me. As I was planting more bulbs to bloom in the summer, I was thinking about how I didn’t understand how some people don’t like to be outdoors and how some people don’t like to get dirty or whatever. To each their own, but I love it! It’s good for my soul. Which brings me to the point that my husband has now realized about me, the winter months (after Christmas of course) are hard on me! As I’m sure they are for a lot of people. So when it starts getting warmer outside and all plant life starts turning green- I start feeling like me again and happier and more functional, and I am SO grateful for it. I am so grateful for the different seasons, (I’m about to rhyme) for different reasons… but most of all Spring! It just happens to show up when I need it the most! I know it’s not quite here yet, but it will be soon. And the weather lately has been good enough for me to start feeling somewhat better!
We’re looking forward to this weekend too, we’re going to the Thundering Waters cabin we visit often with all of our friends. It's very important for me to have something to look forward to during either Jan or Feb. Then next week we celebrate Ben’s birthday! He turns 3 on 3/3! It’s his golden. We’re doing a pirate theme, of course, he’s just so super in to pirates (I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or not, what with the news of the Somalia Pirates lately)… but it’s kind of cute. In the “Innocent Pirate” way (if there is such a thing)! Last night, in order to get him to eat his fish sticks I told him that a pirate’s favorite food was fish sticks. It wasn’t hard for him to eat them after that! All while saying “arg! I a pirate! I eat all my fish sticks!” I can’t believe my little guy is getting so big. It’s kind of crazy looking back at pictures and to see him all thinned out and looking like a real life little boy now. He surprises us every day with just how smart he is. He loves shapes, and puzzles and words and letters- he doesn’t quite recognize the letters yet, but he's getting close. He thought a J was an L yesterday, which was a start. He’s doing really good with his colors. I bought him some refrigerator letter magnets, and last night I left the room and came back in and he’d separated all of them in to their respective color groups. He can count really well, although I think he pretends he can’t a lot. He can count pretty high, but for some reason just pretends he doesn’t know how to when we put him on the spot. He also has learned his “lefts” and “rights” which has been fun. He pretends and talks to himself a lot, which I love to listen to. He'll repeat things we've said to him just like we say it to him to his cars or toys or whatever. It's funny. He remembers things that are so random to me too. For example, one time we went and got hamburgers from Wendy’s and then went and ate them in the car under the bridge of the freeway near the Chattahoochee River. I think it was in the summer when our air went out and we wanted to get out of the house. We pass under that bridge every time we go over to the Terry’s and every time we do, he says “mommy! We ate there!” I got him a picture book from Shutterfly of some highlights of the year last year, and some things he remembered right off the bat. Like when we went to the zoo during the summer, almost 8 months ago! And I got a shirt out of the wash for him to wear this morning that he’d worn over the weekend and spilled applesauce on, he said “you wash it mommy!?” and I said “yup! It’s all clean!” and he said “Oh good job! You get off the applesauce!?” So cute! He’s also REALLY enjoying this warm weather, I guess he’s like his mommy and NEEDS it. He’s been going outside after we get home every night and doing whatever; playing with his dump trucks, with his t-ball, whatever. It’s awesome, we love it. He comes in every few mins to get us to show us something, or like last night he came in and said “hey mommy?” and I said “yes love” and he said “I tired” and then went back outside. That was it. That’s all he wanted to tell me! Ha-ha! He also enjoys hanging out in his underwear. I think he'd prefer to be naked, but his undis are a new found freedom for him!

He loves the new babies too, like “Baby Hunter” and “Baby Savannah”. He loves to hold Savannah too. I took some pictures of the kids this Sunday. I loved watching Ben sit with the babies, he was so patient with them. He kept looking at them and checking on them. It was pretty cute. And he loves to talk to them and try and make them laugh. He’ll be a really good big brother one day.

We’re hoping to get out to UT this summer, we’ll see how Ben does on the plane now that he’s a little older. He hasn’t been on a plane since he was a year and a half. Hopefully, the experience will be better than the last one. I'm sure he can be entertained with a movie or two… and he’ll have his own seat too which will help. I can’t wait though, I’m super homesick!
Well, that is all for now. TTYL.

I sure do love my boys... I love how they just have a special bond that I don't even come close to understanding. I'm not even jealous! I think it's wonderful, and I really hope that their special bond NEVER, EVER breaks. Ben's best friend is his daddy- and I think that's pretty special.

Benny made us laugh this morning. I was in our bathroom when I heard Ryan say to Ben "you need to go potty? Okay, well come on!" then I heard shuffling and low talking and then "Put your pee pee in the toilet Ben! You have to push your wiener in the toilet!" then, "Heather! Come here quick!" all while he's cracking up. Ben in his sleepy head manner forgot to push his little "member" in to the toilet and well, at FULL stream peed on the wall. From the toilet. In the trash can, on the floor, EVERYWHERE between him, the toilet and the wall! Ryan said he was shell shocked at first and couldn't stop watching the impressive arch the pee trail was making (Ben was apparently enamored by it too), then finally Ben pushed "it" in and finished peeing IN the potty! Then started crying because either it scared him, he thought he was in trouble- who knows. Anyway, we made a joke of it, I tried to get him to laugh while I was cleaning up. But we thought it was hilarious. It was EVERYWHERE of course... but a good story none-the-less.
He's really had a struggle lately... not sure why. He does fine at home, but has been having lots of "accidents" at school. I don't consider them accidents though because he knows where to go and what to do when he needs to go potty. At first we were very upset and stressed out and took away toys and got mad at him... and now we're just kind of ignoring the "accidents" and reminding him about how to use the potty correctly. We figure at this point, stressing out is not worth it... and we have every bit of faith that he'll eventually have it done pat! We will not be sending our child to kindergarten in diapers!

I Wanna Write You a Letter...

We had a pretty good weekend. We started it off by dropping the Benster off for a night of fun with Nana and Poppy. They were supposed to go to a Basketball game for the high school they attended 40-something years ago, because one of the jersey's of a friend was being retired at half time or something. Poppy made it, but Ben and Nana did not. The weather was RAINY and Nana has some feet problems that prevent her from walking long distances with out an extreme amount of pain, and toting along a 2 year old is just not an option. So instead, they got McDonald's and waited until Poppy got home and had fun anyway! WE met up with the Kranendonk's and ate some dinner at Chick-fil-a, which seemed to take WAY too long. Then ventured downtown to the Tabernacle to see GUSTER! YAY! We first stood in the back, but then good ol' Jared talked us in to walking to the front of the crowd and jamming our way in with the rest of the people. (He's got that young spirit about him still, which I'm grateful for!) I've always had anxieties about this because I'm so small... but, we were super close and it wasn't all that bad!Until that is, a giant 20-something year old BEAST of a guy stood beside me. I swear he was like 7'12". His bent elbow was basically in my face. I made him acknowledge this fact, as I didn't want it in my eye and for his beer to be somehow spilled on me nor my husband and friends. He gave me a dirty look when I did this, but I didn't care. What I DID care about though, and the rest of the people in the general vicinity, was the RANCID smell he produced from his, ahem, backside. Someone ate a little too much Mexican food! Or something... but good golly miss molly... like, so bad my nose hairs all fell out! Besides that not so enjoyable ambiance, Guster ROCKED. Literally. They put on an amazing show. And I've never been so close to a band at a concert before! I could see the lead singers spit spray while was he singing! Eeek! One of my favorite things about concerts, is to FEEL the music in my body. To actually feel the bass vibrating through the floor and in to my toes and up to my heart is one of the greatest things ever about live music! These guys are super talented too. Just about every song someone played a different instrument. And the Bongo guy? THE BONGO GUY... WAS... AMAZING. Wowza. I can't even really describe just how amazing he was except for "he was so amazing, when he whooped those bongo's butts- he did it with his tongue out".... guess you had to be there. Anyway we had a ton of fun with the K-donks. A great grown up time!
I need to make a list of all the bands I've seen live... I used to have one written in a journal somewhere. Wonder where that went....
Saturday I took some pictures of the new arrival of a baby girl of some friends, the Hutchison's. It was a lot of fun to see them, and their little girls are just gorgeous. Both of them! Well, I mean they're all really pretty people! Even Eric! Haha Then we kind of did nothing much the rest of the day. We were all pretty tired, and have been all sick with this dang cold that just WON'T go away... so we all napped. And it was pretty nice. Then we ate dinner and I think FINALLY put the Christmas boxes up in the garage and did some laundry, blah blah blah... boring. The End. Sunday... we played hookie from church. Still feeling icky and didn't want to get the Nursery kiddos sick. Went to pick up a couple things from Nana's we left behind and then came home and made some items for the Superbowl party at the Terry's. Ryan usually is jinxed when it comes to red lights (this story has a point I promise), but on the way home from the Smith's house we hit EVERY green light! It was something short of a miracle. SO, we decided to cheer for the GREENbay Packers! hahaha! I know, we're pathetic. But we're funny huh? Anyway, they won. Yup... we're good luck charms. And apparently all those green lights we hit were too! The party was fun, SO much food. Martha made these awesomely radical cookies, she did it last year too! She's tre talented.We stayed over too late, and poor Ben had a rough day today. He's still either struggling with the potty thing, or he's just flat out being lazy... which seems to be a reoccurring theme with him (ugh... not looking forward to that combined with the teenage years... I think I just threw up in my mouth a little bit). It was our fault for keeping him up so late... BAD PARENTS. BUT we got him in bed early tonight. We sure love that little booger face. He keeps us laughing all the time. And he's growing and talking and getting smarter and smarter every day! Okay... I think I'm done with you. Are you done with me? Great. Cya next time.